Not that men (me included) needed another reason to talk about their testicles, but I couldn’t pass up this gem of a video. Check out this ‘masculine spin’ on the Vagina Monologues - The Testicle Dialogues…
Originally seen on Queerty - the blog of all things queer. Link to their post here.
What do you guys think? Hilarious? Or no??
Compliments… the forgotten aphrodisiac. You know how good it feels to have someone compliment you, and what it does for your personal self esteem and value. So why not do more of it? A simply compliment can change a person’s day and increase their self worth; AND - ancillary benefit - with increased self worth and a sense of appreciation from your partner(s), sexual activity often increases. From what we know through sex research, we can then easily say;
Compliments -> ^Self Worth -> ^Attraction to Partner -> ^Libido -> More Sex -> Better Health -> Longer life!
SO, give out those compliments, have more sex, and live longer! Win-win-win. :)
We are all around sexual beings. Our sex is not located solely in the genitals - as humans we LOVE to hear, smell, taste, touch, and see our sex. One of most often overlooked is talking dirty - both hearing and saying all of the things that are going on in our heads when rockin’ the boat… or bed… or kitchen counter. However, so many people feel uncomfortable or say they don’t know how to talk dirty. I myself suggest a three-pronged dirty talk approach to figuring it out. Here are some helpful tips to spice up your sexy lingo.
As always, if you have any sex-related, sexuality, or relationship questions - please don’t hesitate to send them in. :)
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