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#JustTheTip Tuesday - "Talk Dirty to Me!"

10/20/2015

 
We are all around sexual beings. Our sex is not located solely in the genitals - as humans we LOVE to hear, smell, taste, touch, and see our sex. One of most often overlooked is talking dirty - both hearing and saying all of the things that are going on in our heads when rockin’ the boat… or bed… or kitchen counter. However, so many people feel uncomfortable or say they don’t know how to talk dirty. I myself suggest a three-pronged dirty talk approach to figuring it out. Here are some helpful tips to spice up your sexy lingo. ​
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  1. Being vocal about/during sex is not just about words. Try making sounds, such as heavy breaths, sighs, moans of pleasure – all coming from a place inside that wants to be set free! If it feels weird at first, try it alone, when no one is home to hear/judge you - bring yourself to orgasm and just let it all out, whatever it is… Then see how it feels/enhances your experience. 
  2. If you do want to say words - try starting with a play-by-play of what is happening. “I am so hot right now.” or “You’re ____ is so [hard/wet/slippery].” or “Do you want to put your ____ in my ____?” 
  3. Using phrases such as “That feels so good right now.” or “Keep doing that!” or “You are so beautiful right now, I could stay in this moment forever.” help your lover to know what kinds of things you like, and so can be helpful to increasing your overall sexual experiences. 
Now, you don’t have to be screaming these things at the top of your lungs… gentle whispers and seductive voices can sometimes be even more erotic. 

As always, if you have any sex-related, sexuality, or relationship questions - please don’t hesitate to send them in. :) 
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Keep sexin’!
-Dr. B

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