Having sex the same ol’ way you’ve been doing it is b-o-r-i-n-g! Try doing it differently… and I’m not just talking about positions! There are many “types” of sex, and many “ways” in which to have sex - here are a few that may throw a curve ball into your life:
Try dropping by your partner’s home, or on a whim - jumping on top of your lover and have a hot n’ heavy steam session. The major goal of quickie sex is to get to orgasm and release as quickly as possible. This could help for those couples who don’t feel like they have enough time.
Haven’t you always … even a little bit… considered having sex at work? Maybe working in a quickie in the restaurant bathroom with your lover when out on a date? Try it out! (be safe!)
You are no longer you. You are now _____. Now do it hard. If that’s what you want, or soft… or whatever… the story is yours! Try “picking up” your significant other at your favorite bar, and pretending it’s the first time!
Candles… a bubble bath… maybe some chocolates and flowers. Sweet nothings whispered in the ear. Take your time… Give massages, caress all over the body… Think about that last time you saw a romantic sex scene in a movie - try and recreate it!
These are just some ideas to do something different than the average typical, before bed, nighttime standard of sexin’. Make new memories!
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